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I had 2 abortions

1989 Großbritannien

The first abortion I was very sure it was the right thing to do and felt very relieved afterwards. However psychologically it affected me a lot. I felt dirty and cheap. I did not want to have a relationship with a man afterwards. I was angry but could not talk to anyone about how I felt and bottled it up. I became depressed and isolated. A few years later I fell pregnant from a one night stand, one of the few times I had sex afterwards. I was very drunk. I took the morning after pill the next day but it didn’t work. I couldn’t believe I was in the same place again. I decided to have an abortion again as my family said they would not support me. It was terrible and broke my heart. However I learnt so much from my heartache. I decided to shake myself out of my depression and do something. I took responsibility for my actions. It was a horrible thing to do but it was necessary. Slowly I built my life again. I bought a flat. I met a wonderful man who loved me for who I was. We married and I had a baby at the right time. She was and is the best thing that ever happened to me. I had another beautiful daughter. We are a very happy family. I sometimes think about the babies I did not have have but a know I was too young and irresponsible and I would not have been a good mother. I have made peace with them and myself. I think abortions should be avoided at all costs but women need to be able to have the choice. No man should tell them otherwise. I want young women to know that even if you feel terrible now you can still find a lot of happiness in your future. Have faith in yourself and keep trying to find the right path for you.

It was physically uncomfortable and there was a lot of blood afterwards

My first abortion I was in a very dysfunctional relationship. My boyfriend was a heroin addict although he hid it from me. I had finished with him when I found out I was pregnant. I was in second year at university and having a child at 19 was not in my plans. My second abortion was from a one night stand where I was basically raped as I was out of control drunk. I couldn’t face bringing a baby into the world like that.

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

I was lucky to live in a country that offers legal free abortions.

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

I didn’t tell many people. My best friends. They were shocked and didnt really know how to react

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Martina Martina

Un acto irresponsable pero a la vez un sentimiento de alivio.

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Andrea

Cuando tenia 19 años, "me enamore" de un tipo casado, quede embarazada y el lo…

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

Dana Bronte

Muerte de un ángel.

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

alessandra

I had an abortion

D.G

Aborto Simples e tranquilo com Cytotec

Contra o aborto até precisar dele

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Dina Wood

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