Anne

Comparta su experiencia

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Deutschland

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida

Efy

y no me siento mal

KiciaKamcia

Nie wahajcie sie, jezeli czujecie ze musicie.. zrobcie to

Andreza

Quando descobri que estava grávida eu já estava com um mês de gestação. A…

Paloma

tenemos derecho a decidir, a no ser juzgadas!!! nosotras también tenemos…

alexandra

j´ai eu un avortement

Mayra

Yo aborté a las 7 semanas y fue la mejor decisión.

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

deja la vida volar

decidí escribir mi experiencia en detalle ya que en mi país el aborto es…

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação

Matka Winna

Moja historia

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