Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Elena

No fue tan terrible.

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Jude

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gise

esta vez decido yo!

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Morrigan

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Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga

Anne

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Tamsen Reid

I had an abortion because I did not want to be pregnant. I wasn't ready to…

Petal

I had an abortion only a few months ago. I'm 30, a praticing Christian, a…

Génesis

Hola. Esta es mi experiencia.
Tengo 17 años actualmente, no soy virgen pero…

julie

My life became changed

Nadia

Le habia escrito una blanca cancion del amor entre una nube y un pez volador.

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J'ai avorté suite à ma grossesse arrêtée à 8 semaines

Mollie

Despite the intense feelings I've had since, I know it was the right thing to…