Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

كيف كان رد فعل الآخرين على الإجهاض؟

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Blue

The decision was easy, but the emotions were not.

The person who got me…

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Ana Vargas

Mi aborto lo hice a los 14años hoy tengo una hija de 23 años y un hijo de 17…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Mickey

I was 22 turning 23 when I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant. The father and I…

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.

Serena

I had an abortion

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Any Weather

Merci à toutes les femmes qui ont lutter pour le droit d'avorter! Merci à…

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Daisy

Miałam aborcję. I nie jestem z tego dumna.
19 lutego 2020 roku zrobiłam test…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Casey

Medical abortion, 19 years old

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.

Estka

Mam dwójkę wspaniałych dzieci- 9 lat i rok. Nie chcieliśmy z mężem już więcej.