Vanessa

rouw rustig opgelucht verdoofd verlicht verward gelukkig zeker

I've never been more sure about a decision. This was something I wanted to do, so I did it.

met kruiden, massage over andere methode zelf gedaan

successful!

financiele situatie mijn opleiding mijn leeftijd (te jong of te oud) problemen met mijn partner

I'm 22 years old. I want to finish university. I want to travel. I want to intern in Spain's embassy. I want to get my translator/interpreter certificate. I want to be child-free for a few years. I want to be an excellent mom, mediocre will not suffice. I want to raise children who become great people, not people who resent the fact that their mother wasn't ready to raise them. It's something I would regret my entire life. My personal philosophy is to live in love and gratitude with no regrets. Having a child now isn't part of my life plan.

Ngaba ukungabikho mthethweni kokuqhomfa kwakho kuchaphazele iimvakalelo zakho?

This didnt affect my feelings because abortion is legal in my home country.

Benze ntoni abanye abantu xa ukhupha isisu?

Only two people knew that I planned to have an abortion: my best friend and my host mom