Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

Share your story

Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Нідерланди

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

How did other people react to your abortion?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Kyky

Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

P. C.

Fiz um aborto e senti vergonha de Deus, mas fiquei aliviada.

Luiza N.

Minha história foi completamente diferente de tudo que li aqui no site…

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Ana Vargas

Mi aborto lo hice a los 14años hoy tengo una hija de 23 años y un hijo de 17…

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

Lucy Smith

It was never going to be easy

Issy

Tome una decision

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji