Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

How did other people react to your abortion?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

anonymous

My abortion story.

Viridiana Aguilar

I had an abortion

Luna Luna

Por que ya tengo dos bebes y el mas pequeño tiene seis meses tenia otros planes…

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Nadia

Le habia escrito una blanca cancion del amor entre una nube y un pez volador.

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Maiara Rejane

Não havia outra alternativa.
Dia 02 de Julho, voltava de uma festa, havia bebido…

Samantha

Grow Yourself, Before You Grow a Baby.

DeOne

Its gonna be the first time i speak about my abortion.
I was just a 25 yo girl

Hajat

Życie składa się z podejmowania trudnych decyzji

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Rike

It was a birthday

KEP

I was 44 years old and already had 2 children. The pregnancy was an accident…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Monika Bery

24.01.2020 godzina 11.51
Tej daty nie i godziny nie zapomnę do końca swych dni.

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Phoebe

I didn't want to do it, but it is my worst fear to bring another child into the…