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2019 Об'єднане Королівство

Before and throughout the process I had my mind set on it because of the situation I was in at the time. But now it's been a few months and I'm conflicted about my feelings about it, everytime I see a baby which by God they are everywhere I cant help but to think about the life I took.

I found out that I was pregnant after new years. I was 7 weeks along and I'm only 17 so I didn't really have a choice on method of the abortion I was only offered a medical termination and had to stay on a ward. The doctors I spoke to were all lovely and didn't judge which made my experience bearable but for my final appointment the nurses that looked after me on the ward I couldn't thank them enough for everything, they were so kind and made sure that I was comfortable throughout.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No, abortions are legal where I am.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I didn't really tell anyone about being pregnant apart from my boyfriend and made the decision to have an abortion at the time and to not tell anyone. I went to my first appointment alone but then was unable to get transport to the second and third appointment so then told my sister and asked if she could take me. My sister was shocked and upset for me but she was there for me the whole time. For my boyfriend though we didn't speak about it really after the decision was made and he was working all the time so he couldn't really be there.

Key

I was too careless after meeting a guy when I was in a vulnerable period and…

Macarena

Yo aborte , con oxapros en Buenos Aires tengo 24 años

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

Beata

Informacja o ciąży przeraziła mnie...nie potrafiłam się z tym pogodzić, byłam…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Hajat

Życie składa się z podejmowania trudnych decyzji

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Riki

We're not monsters!