Louise Harper

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I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9 weeks gestation, and one at age 38 which I had through the NHS at 8 weeks gestation. By no means was this an easy option as many people think but I 100% made the right choice and definitely have no regrets. On both occasions I had no hesitation with choosing a termination and had vacuum aspiration under general anaesthetic. No complications, very little pain and no lasting effects. On the first one there were protesters outside but it made no difference to me at all. It is my life, my body, my choice.

Never feel bad for making this decision for yourself as you won’t regret it. Once you have been and had it done you will feel relief and nothing but gratitude for having been unburdened. It isn’t pleasant to have to terminate but it is the right thing to do when you are in no place to be bringing up a child.

We have the right as women to choose.

I feel no guilt, no regret, no post-abortion psychosis, nothing. I am lucky to be able to access the services I did.

Never stay silent and never be ashamed. YOUR body, YOUR choice.

2015 Об'єднане Королівство

Didn’t feel guilty but felt like I was ‘old enough to know better’. This passed once the operation was completed. I have not looked back. Not once.

Pain free as I was unconscious. After pain was minimal. Hardly any bleeding.

How did other people react to your abortion?

My partner was supportive. My parents disapproved. Didn’t matter to me as it was my choice.

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Camilla Ferraz

Fiz um aborto porque tenho o direito de decidir meu futuro e minha história.

Vittoria

Me siento vacía ...

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Katarzyna

Nie mogłam mieć dziecka z kilku powodów: jeszcze się uczę, chłopak w ogóle nie…

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Marghe

À la limite du délai légal, j'ai avorté à 18 ans et 1 mois. J'étais soutenue…

Lu

Unexpected feelings

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.