Louise Harper

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I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9 weeks gestation, and one at age 38 which I had through the NHS at 8 weeks gestation. By no means was this an easy option as many people think but I 100% made the right choice and definitely have no regrets. On both occasions I had no hesitation with choosing a termination and had vacuum aspiration under general anaesthetic. No complications, very little pain and no lasting effects. On the first one there were protesters outside but it made no difference to me at all. It is my life, my body, my choice.

Never feel bad for making this decision for yourself as you won’t regret it. Once you have been and had it done you will feel relief and nothing but gratitude for having been unburdened. It isn’t pleasant to have to terminate but it is the right thing to do when you are in no place to be bringing up a child.

We have the right as women to choose.

I feel no guilt, no regret, no post-abortion psychosis, nothing. I am lucky to be able to access the services I did.

Never stay silent and never be ashamed. YOUR body, YOUR choice.

2015 Об'єднане Королівство

Didn’t feel guilty but felt like I was ‘old enough to know better’. This passed once the operation was completed. I have not looked back. Not once.

Pain free as I was unconscious. After pain was minimal. Hardly any bleeding.

How did other people react to your abortion?

My partner was supportive. My parents disapproved. Didn’t matter to me as it was my choice.

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.

elusabeth

I had an abortion

Hattie Ladd

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Phoebe

I didn't want to do it, but it is my worst fear to bring another child into the…

Willem Velthoven

I had several abortions. And children too!

britta

Something that has carried with me ever since.

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

Cela B

Você precisa fazer uma auto avaliação e ver o que é melhor pra você. Não…

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.