Lauren Jackson

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I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal abortion because it was illegal to have one. The pill was not available during this time.

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I got my college degree, enjoyed a successful career, got married when the time was right, had 2 fabulous children and am going to be a grandmother soon. Now at 60 years old, I have had an extremely happy life, still married for 36 years to my best friend, and never, ever, looked back at the decision I made and thought it was the wrong thing to do. I sincerely believe that women who face an unplanned pregnancy who make the choice to end it knows it was (or is) the best thing to do at that particular time in their lives. The men who get these women pregnant then know that it was terminated never seem to be haunted by this so why should women be the only ones carry any afterthoughts?

I have NEVER FORGOTTEN the vacuum abortion without anesthesia/pain medications even though I am now 60 years old. I shudder at the memory even as I write this now. I have been an abortion rights advocate ever since.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

Not at all...laws made mostly by men who almost never take responsibility after each time they have sex with a woman and walk away...are meant to be ignored.

How did other people react to your abortion?

My college roommates were totally understanding and supportive. I could not tell my parents/siblings or neighbors back home because they would never understand that having a baby at 19 years old would have ruined my life...completely.

Sara

Abortar era la decisión que debía tomar...

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

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16 semanas de terror

Julia

Foi um pesadelo mas no final me senti mais aliviada

N.

Historia właściwie była dość typowa, sex, pęknięta gumka, spóźniający się okres

Daisy

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Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

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Lindsay Millett

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Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Daria

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O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Isa

Eu sou muito nova e fim. Esse é o motivo principal. Tenho só 15, e o pai da…

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Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Jamie

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Lorena

Yo aborte por que decidí que no estaba lista para ser madre y por qué empiezo a…

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.