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Medical abortion, 19 years old

2014 Amerika Birleşik Devletleri

Although it was probably the right choice to make for my future, I have felt very guilty about it and still cry about it months later. I keep seeing the little fingers in my mind and I just break down. I feel empty and seeing little kids sometimes makes me feel angry or sad. I'm not sure how to get over this. I could not continue my relationship with the would-be father because he did not feel the same sadness I felt and it made me so angry because I couldn't understand how not. Sometimes I get upset that nobody tried to convince me to not get the abortion, although I am not certain that would have changed anything.

It was pretty painful, especially the first day and I was very nauseated and bled for several weeks. At eight weeks pregnant, I almost missed the cutoff date to be able to have the medical procedure, I'm not sure if i could have gone through with the surgical one. I was fortunate to be able to do the process by myself instead with doctors I don't know, and also I consider myself lucky because I was able to see the baby after it passed and give the baby a final resting place of my choosing.

I chose to have an abortion because everyone seemed to think it was the best choice as I still have a lot of education to go and am not very well-off financially.

Kürtajınızın yasa dışı olması duygularınızı etkiledi mi?

Well it was legal so no.

Diğer insanlar kürtajınıza nasıl tepki gösterdi?

Everyone I told thought that it was the "smartest choice" to make at that point in my life and they were very supportive.

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Gabriela

Abortei aos 17 anos.

Dana Bronte

Muerte de un ángel.

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Maria sovitlana

i really cant believe that i can do it in a country where so much hard law…

María

Proceso duro,

Marghe

À la limite du délai légal, j'ai avorté à 18 ans et 1 mois. J'étais soutenue…

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Magui

La mejor decisión