Anne

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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Almanya

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Kürtajınızın yasa dışı olması duygularınızı etkiledi mi?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Diğer insanlar kürtajınıza nasıl tepki gösterdi?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Candice

My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…

Magdalena Kozakiewicz

I had an abortion

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Marysia

Aborcja w domu

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Raíra

Bom, tenho 27 anos e em 2018 resolvi fazer uma segunda graduacao. Namoro tem 4…

SD

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Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

andrea ka

Yo aborte

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Irlanda

Sabia lo que hacia, nunca dude, y sigo creyendo que fue lo mejor para mi y para…