Anne

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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Almanya

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Kürtajınızın yasa dışı olması duygularınızı etkiledi mi?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Diğer insanlar kürtajınıza nasıl tepki gösterdi?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Fer

100% segura

Emily

10 years ago, at age 32, I had an abortion. The pregnancy was unplanned and I…

Maria

Maria

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

y.enedi

yo decidi un aborto,

Carolina

Estou numa relação estável há 4 anos e há 2 parei de usar anticoncepcional…

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Ayshy

Aborto cytotec 5 semanas

Sara

Postanowiłam opisać swoją historię, ponieważ historie innych kobiet bardo dużo…

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Mariana

Esta es mi historia: Tengo 35 años y 3 hijos, dos nenas y un varón de 6, 3 y 1…

Hajat

Życie składa się z podejmowania trudnych decyzji

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Aborté a mis 18, a unos cuantos meses de mi graduación de preparatoria.
Me…

Lora Fleming

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions…

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Anna Ninguna

No estaba lista

KiciaKamcia

Nie wahajcie sie, jezeli czujecie ze musicie.. zrobcie to