Anne

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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Almanya

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Kürtajınızın yasa dışı olması duygularınızı etkiledi mi?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Diğer insanlar kürtajınıza nasıl tepki gösterdi?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

CINTIA

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento de ello.

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Ilis

Aliviada y triste pero no arrepentida

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Sylvie Shene

A Life-Saving Experience

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Laura

I had a surgical abortion at Planned Parenthood in Beacon, NY at 4 weeks.

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

Daiana Domzalez

Mi experiencia con oxaprost, 9 semanas