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After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Malwina

To była bardzo trudna decyzja ale w tamtej chwili nie potrafiłam sobie…

Abigail

2 miesiące po aborcji. Moje życie wróciło do normy. Jest dobrze..

anto

I had an abortion, Yo aborte, Apoyo la libertad de elegir sin tabues. Si bien…

Maripaz

Tengo 25a, estudio medicina. Acababa de terminar el internado y estaba por…

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

dessa

fiz um aborto sozinha

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Cathy

Unexpected..

Yasmin Lara

Bom,eu encontrei vários relatos e quis deixar o meu bom eu tenho só 17 anos e…

Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação