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After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Lisal M. C

It was a big decided that I made in my life. I had a complexity relationship…

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Maiara Rejane

Não havia outra alternativa.
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Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

LOLO

Made me who I am today

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Daria

Mam 17 lat i jestem z moim chłopakiem od lutego. Aborcji dokonałam z wczoraj na…

Luiza N.

Minha história foi completamente diferente de tudo que li aqui no site…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

julie

My life became changed

Yasmin Lara

Bom,eu encontrei vários relatos e quis deixar o meu bom eu tenho só 17 anos e…

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…