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After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Sand

Grosse angoisse au moment de prendre le misoprostol... Mais finalement

Candice

My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…

María

Yo aborte

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Beatriz

Yo aborté y fue una experiencia de empoderamiento.

Alice

This is how it went for me

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.