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I am pro-choice

2005 Birleşik Krallık (doğmak Poland)

It was a hard and extremely difficult decision, and I had a lot of doubts, trying to find my way. Today I’m sure that was a right decision, and I don’t regret it, but I regret deeply that I had to loose a child. I was sad and crying for long time – as we are sad after someone loved died or left for ever, and we cannot help it. But I was right deciding that I wasn’t able to have a child at that moment.

I had my abortion in London, at Marie Stopes, where everyone was very professional, and supporting. My pregnancy was very early – 3,5 weeks, so I had just the pills. Normally the women have strong cramps and a lot of blood after them, but I didn’t. I was extremely stressed because of whole situation, and the night before taking pills I had cramps, and a lot of blood, and I thought it was a kind of miscarriage. So after pills nothing happened, no cramps, and almost no blood.

I had a boyfriend, who told me he was infertile. We were planning to adopt children in the future. I don’t know if he really meant that, or was just lying, but obviously he wasn’t infertile. When I told him I’m pregnant, he said he wasn’t going to stay with me, and he wanted me to abort, he left and stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I was shocked and destroyed by the offensive and extremely cruel way of treating me by someone, who before pretended to love me. I went through all possibilities to see if I’m able to have this child, and I decided that I’m not strong enough on my own (I don’t have supportive family, and my economical situation was quite bad).

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I am Polish, and for last 3 years I have been living and working in UK, where the abortion is legal. It was a great stress to face the abortion situation on my own (no support from the partner or family), and if I had an additional pressure from the legal order, I would feel in a lot bigger oppression. It was a great help and relief for me – while undertaking my decision – to know that I have a choice and don’t have to have a baby, and I was lucky not to face this situation in Poland, where the abortion is still illegal.

Diğer insanlar kürtajınıza nasıl tepki gösterdi?

I was quite on my own, and had only one friend, who knew and supported me, which I'm very grateful for.

Gemma

The best decision for me.

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Katarina

w wieku 20 lat. Byłam za młoda, mam wielkie plany na przyszłość, nie chciałam…

Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

diana

naprawde nie miałam wyjścia jestem miesiąc po,nie bolało szczerze mówiąc…

Urszula

Po porodzie miałam postanowienie, wiecej dzieci nie chcę, mój ginekolog dobrze…

Kidda Sinsee

And I was afraid at first...

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Samantha

Grow Yourself, Before You Grow a Baby.

Angel

Nunca me senti tão sozinha

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Alma en busca de libertad

MI DECISIÓN, MI CUERPO, JUSTICIA PARA LAS MUJERES.

Bel

Tak, miałam aborcję

Nichole Jeffers

Being allergic to latex I became pregnant multiple times before I was 20 having…

Monoirmarie

Yo aborté porque es mi derecho