Han

แบ่งปันประสบการณ์ของคุณ

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 ประเทศอังกฤษ

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

คนอื่นมีปฏิกิริยาอย่างไรต่อการทำแท้งของคุณ?

The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

Вика а

I had an abortion я сделала аборт и не жалею. это бил правильный выбор. Я…

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Lora Fleming

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions…

Jo

I'm in a loving relationship and it wasn't too long ago when I found out I was…

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

L

My abortions defined my life choices for decades

V

Minęło 5 miesięcy. Nie żałuję swojej decyzji, Ale żałuję że tak musiało się…

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

mimi

mi aborto. siempre te voy a recordar pequeña semillita

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Beata

Informacja o ciąży przeraziła mnie...nie potrafiłam się z tym pogodzić, byłam…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old