Jillybean

แบ่งปันประสบการณ์ของคุณ

Women's bodies belong only to us. Men, families, society, have no right to decide for us. The right to abortion is only a tiny part. It is a fundamental human right to understand our bodies, our sexuality, our feelings, periods, pregnancy, and menopause. It is our fundamental human right to enjoy good health, to contraception, to say "no", to choose when and with whom we wish to share our physical pleasure and love, to choose when and with whom to have a baby, or to choose not to have children. It is our right to have healthy babies, to be able to keep our babies, to have help and advice about childcare, to be free from fear, from bullying. It is our right to be beautiful or ugly, to stay at home or go out in the world. What a beautiful place the world will be for men, women and children when these rights are recognised for every women.

1980 ประเทศอังกฤษ

I was concerned about denying the child the right to live. I wasn't then and am still not sure what I felt about it spiritually, but I prayed for the unborn child and wished for its soul, if it had one, to be born to parents who would be able to give it the love every human deserves. I felt it was a selfish decision but felt it was my right to make it, as my life was ahead of me and an unhappy / unwilling mother is not a good mother.

Despite all the support I felt pretty much alone, and for very many years did not feel I could talk about it. In the end I felt it was my duty to talk about it for the sake of other women, so they would not feel so alone. Clinically and medically it went very well, I was well taken care of. I did not suffer from depression afterwards, although it was not especially easy psychologically. It would have been preferable to have remembered to use the free contraception that was available to me in my country, but as one woman pointed out, we are only human, and we inevitably make mistakes.

I did not feel ready to have a child, and not with this boyfriend who I did not think would be my future husband. In fact I couldn't imagine myself as a mother and I didn't think I would give the baby the life it deserved. Since then, I have in fact never become a mother, and I am very happy with my choice.

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I did not want to talk to many people about it. My boyfriend was extremely respectful of my right to choose, he took a back seat. He suggested I talk to another woman. I eventually spoke to one or two other people. All were supportive, no-one tried to influence my choice except one couple of friends who sincerely believed it would be bad for the unborn baby and for my karma. The clinic I went to offered me a truly honest counceling : I was asked to think about the reasons for AND against such a choice, to try to ensure I would not regret it later.

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

squaine123

Not in this alone

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

Lorelai

Basically I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, to my shock and awe…

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

aileen

I have had two abortions

Alice

Bom, há algumas semanas eu já vinha desconfiando de uma gravidez, embora não…

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

Constanza Arely

El ser madre debe ser una decisión, una de las mejores experiencias que vive…

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Anna K.

nie żałuję,