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แบ่งปันประสบการณ์ของคุณ

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

2007 ฟิลิปปินส์

I had been to several OB-GYNs in hospitals. I told them I didn't want to and could not have a child but of course, they couldn't do anything because of the law here. Finally, at around 7 wks, I went to an NGO with a couple of female relatives. I felt extremely lucky because one of my relatives works in women's rights so we were able to go to an NGO with a real doctor and a counselor who interviewed me to make sure I was firm in my decision. They made me feel like they understood my predicament as I was young and very incapable of having a child. It's still highly illegal in this country so they were all understandably cautious and destroyed my ultrasound pictures and records. The procedure itself hurt and lasted maybe 20 minutes. I wasn't under general anesthesia but the nurses held my hand and told me to breathe. It felt good having all these women surrounding me. Afterwards, I was able to rest for a while in a lying-in room. My relationship with the father was no good though it lasted a couple more years (covertly) after my abortion. I'm happy I had it and I have no regrets over having it done. I only wish I could have spared my family the heartache and trouble.

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Yes. I carried a lot of anger and guilt over it because I didn't feel it was fair that only a few people could afford or even find a safe place to carry out their abortion. And I was one of those few.

คนอื่นมีปฏิกิริยาอย่างไรต่อการทำแท้งของคุณ?

People were supportive/indifferent/sad. Only a few knew because it's illegal here

Tlhogi Tshegofaso

I did it when I was 4 weeks. Its was tremendously painful and horrific. The…

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Chispi

¿decisión o "me hice a la idea"?

Bea

Enfim,tudo começou em Outubro. Tive relações sexuais com meu parceiro fixo (Meu…

Jennifer

Mi cuerpo, mi decisión

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Jane

I had 2 abortions

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

Catalina

El Misotrol salvó mi vida

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

mela

Vivire por ti mi pequeño angel

Fran

YO DECIDÍ