Robbin

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had an abortion, and i should not have to hide it. My womb is still just fine.

2015

A part of me feels happy because i dont belive the child would be happy struggling. I now have no kids but when i do have kids they will be comfortable because i would have had sufficient time to work on my finances and meet someone i was equally yoked with, since me and the aborted child father and not together. I feel a bit guilty because i dont know what happened to the child soul for sure. I would like to think he or she went back to heaven, or got re-incarnated into a happy family and didnt just go to hell.

Abortion is illegal where i am from but if you have money you can do it. I was living with my ex and his mom. My mother told me very clearly she’s didnt care. I was in Nursing school, and people already had the wrong idea of me. My actions was being mis interpreatated. Before living with my ex i lived down stairs my mom house, she tried as much as she could to get me out. I had no internet so i use to come back sometimes 2 in the morning from sitting outside the library studying and this was seen as i was leaving a married man house so i am promiscuous. I had no oven so i use to leave the house at time at night to get warm food because that’s when it would be the cheapest, but it was seen as i am always out partying. People on my island expected me to end up alone with a child and not finish school. So knowing that in their minds i proved them right i really wanted to kill myself, despite me having a loving partner. He was himself in medical school about to graduate and i was in nursing school. A child would have put both our graduations on hold.

We talked about me keeping the child, and me going o school and graduating and Kim getting a job and since i was closer to graduating than him when we were stable i would work and he would go back to school. This is in a country where the minimum wage is one pound an hour. It was not feasible to support a child and put someone through medical school. And while i was pregnant i felt so sick, i was eating way more than i could afford and his mother was starting to notice,

உங்கள் கருக்கலைப்பு சட்டவிரோதமானது உங்கள் உணர்வுகளை பாதித்ததா?

No, i was already contemplating death.

உங்கள் கருக்கலைப்புக்கு மற்றவர்கள் எவ்வாறு பதிலளித்தனர்?

When i tell someone i had it, its immediately i killed someone, there is death in my womb. There is no thought of if i had money to take care of the child, what kind of life would the child have, how would i feel with the responsibility. I was automatically the killer, while the dad was not even in the conversation.

Carolina

Me enfrente a la injusticia de haber nacido mujer

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Carolina pink

Abortar tambien es un acto de amor

sandrusia020 G*********

W sumie to sama nie wiem od czego zacząć.. moja cała historia rozpoczęła się od…

Lisal M. C

It was a big decided that I made in my life. I had a complexity relationship…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Tatá

Fiz um aborto com 8 semanas. Eu me envolvi com um colega de trabalho, por um…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Vanessa

yo conoci a los 14 años a un vigilante que trabajaba donde mi mama el era super…

Iolanda

Ser solidária com quem abortou e defender a descriminalização jamais me fez…

Baby

Nunca me senti tão sozinha!

Jéssica

RELATO DE UM ABORTO BEM SUCEDIDO DE UMA MULHER SEM NOME:
Nunca pensei que…

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

luna oscura

¿En serio estoy embarazada?