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Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 Britania Raya

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

உங்கள் கருக்கலைப்புக்கு மற்றவர்கள் எவ்வாறு பதிலளித்தனர்?

The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Wer

Tomé la decisión correcta, tal vez no justa, pero correcta.

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Luna

Aún grito perdón

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

Nathalia

Minha história começa com o sonho de cursar medicina no Brasil, o que é muito…

Kidda Sinsee

And I was afraid at first...

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Katy Nunes

Meu corpo: minhas regras. Eu decido se e quando quero ter filho.

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Adhi

Saya masih duduk di kelas 3 SMA saat melakukan aborsi. Saya sudah pacaran…

SD

I had an abortion. It was in October of 2008, when I was 21. The guy I was…