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2006 United States

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

உங்கள் கருக்கலைப்புக்கு மற்றவர்கள் எவ்வாறு பதிலளித்தனர்?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Dana Bronte

Muerte de un ángel.

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Evelyn

I discovered I was pregnant. It was about 5 weeks and 4 days old. I did an…

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Nikki

I made the right decision.

Layla

No dia 28 de outubro de 2018, fazia uma semana que eu vomitava todos os dias ao…

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Susy

Yo interrumpí mi embarazo...

Kristina Brandon

‪#‎StandWithPP‬ I never wanted kids. I got pregnant in college when I was 17.

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Karin

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Mój cykl menstruacyjny zawsze wynosił 28 dni