Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

yerlina

mi decision.una eleccion

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

Emma

I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…

Lorelai

Basically I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, to my shock and awe…

Mollie

Despite the intense feelings I've had since, I know it was the right thing to…

Candice

My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…

Anne

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job

Felicia Ríos

Yo elegí y aborté

Chinchulina

I come from a country where abortion is legal but due to my personal…

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Casey

Medical abortion, 19 years old

Lele

Hoje criei coragem pra relatar o que aconteceu.
Bom, tenho 22 anos, uma vida…

Pam Map

Yo lo hice no me arrepiento para nada y agradezco a este sitio por haberme…

DeOne

Its gonna be the first time i speak about my abortion.
I was just a 25 yo girl

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario