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Made me who I am today

2006 Förenta staterna

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

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I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Nastka

Spóźniał mi się tydzień okres, więc zrobiłam test wyszedł dodatnio, drugi i…

inteldeath

It was the right decision, and it is my choice.

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

andrea

A mi ángel

Nami

porque mi situación económica era pésima, al igual que la de mi pareja, ninguno…

Kera

I'm 18 years of age.My abortion was very hard on me due to religious reasons.It…

Karolina

Miałam aborcję

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

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znów mogę cieszyć się życiem...

Ivana

I had an abortion and never talked about it with anyone

N.

Historia właściwie była dość typowa, sex, pęknięta gumka, spóźniający się okres

Veronica

Yo aborté a las 5 semanas. Yo decidí.

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

Karin

Zrobiłam to!

Wiadomość o ciąży:

Mój cykl menstruacyjny zawsze wynosił 28 dni

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow