Maree

แบ่งปันประสบการณ์ของคุณ

It was sad but necessary

2006 Australien

I cried for months on end. To this day, I feel sad and at the time I felt terrible religious guilt. It was a silly contraceptive error and if I'd never been pregnant, I would have been happy not to ever get pregnant. It's good now though, to write about my abortion without judgement. Before the abortion I thought "I could never do that". But, Even though I hated doing it, I'm eternally greatful abortion was safe, legal and affordable. I would have brought an unwanted child into a life of poverty. It would have been an only child as well. I grew up on a bad family and the last thing I wanted to do was bring someone else up on a bad situation. The whole experience really woke me up - I could never again judge others for making mistakes or getting into trouble - and no matter what decision a woman makes I could never ever judge her. My one suggestion to others would be: don't freak out like I did - get the counselling if you want it before you go ahead with the abortion.

We were young, old, fat, thin, rough, posh, alone or with sad looking partners - all of us were on a compassionately managed conveyor belt through the clinic. It was efficient and sad. I wish now I'd booked in for the counselling they offered me but inward in such a blind panic that I just wanted it over with.

I was so trapped - no family support, 3 month old relationship, contract at horrible employer about to end, too old really to have a 1st child, and no house of my own. And the father did not want it. It was a terrible time.

Påverkade olagligheten i din abort dina känslor?

No.

Hur reagerade andra på din abort?

My partner with relief - he never wanted it; Some friends were great, they were kind and understanding; Other people judged me - friendships ended.

Mickey

I was 22 turning 23 when I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant. The father and I…

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

Tlhogi Tshegofaso

I did it when I was 4 weeks. Its was tremendously painful and horrific. The…

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

M C

Fiz um aborto de aproximadamente 4 semanas e tomei o cytotec que o amigo da…

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

V

Minęło 5 miesięcy. Nie żałuję swojej decyzji, Ale żałuję że tak musiało się…

YoungWoman NotReadyNow SecretsAreComplicating

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Constanza Arely

El ser madre debe ser una decisión, una de las mejores experiencias que vive…

Ana Luiza

A ironia entre abortar e renascer.

Luna Luna

Por que ya tengo dos bebes y el mas pequeño tiene seis meses tenia otros planes…

Miriam

The 10 weeks I was pregnant were the happiest weeks of my life. My husband

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

Luciana

Hace exactamente 1 año y dos meses. Arranque el 2017 con todo. Supe el día que…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Julia

Razem z moich chłopakiem znamy się niecały rok , jest ode mnie młodszy o 4 lata…

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…