Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Ovplyvnila nezákonnosť vášho potratu vaše pocity?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Ako reagovali na váš potrat iní ľudia?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Lola

mifepristona + misoprostol

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Mickey

I was 22 turning 23 when I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant. The father and I…

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Patricia Bronstein

I was married and had known since an early age that I did not want to be a…

C.

I had an abortion, I don't regret it but I can't get over it. The lack of…

Johanna P.

Era lo que tenia que hacer

Izabela

Mam 20 lat i zupełnie nie byłam przygotowana na ciąże.
Ja i mój chłopak…

Gadzinka

Moja aborcja przemineła tak jak miała , wziełam tabletki potem dojadałam .

MS

ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…