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2018 Germany

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

ඔබේ ගබ්සාවට අනෙක් අය ප්‍රතිචාර දැක්වූයේ කෙසේද?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Leslie

Mi libertad de elegir

CPA

Olá, tenho 24 anos e fiz um aborto com aproximadamente 8 semanas. Fiz questão…

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…

Jos

Era lo mejor

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Agos Tina

Oxaprost / 7 semanas

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

Guid

Não me arrependo!

kathy

No me sentía lista

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.