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Made me who I am today

2006 Vereinigte Staaten

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

ඔබේ ගබ්සාවට අනෙක් අය ප්‍රතිචාර දැක්වූයේ කෙසේද?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Fernanda

Descobri que estava grávida no dia do meu aniversário, na época, sem nenhum…

Jos

Era lo mejor

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Młoda Dama

Postanowiłam opisać swój przypadek ponieważ sama podczas dokonywania aborcji…

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Suzanne

I made the best decision for me

Karen vargas

Yo Decidí

Megan W.

I had an abortion. There has been no complications so far, but don't have a…

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Abril Violeta

cuando tenía 24 años, recién terminaba la licenciatura, estaba desempleada, en…

Almma Crysta

Supe de mi embarazo el 19 de enero de 2018 por una ecografía transvaginal que…

Paula *

Yo acompañe a mi hermana quien pasó por este proceso, siempre fui una persona…

Lucille 2

I had an abortion. I got pregnant from a brief relationship and very…

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.