Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Martina Martina

Un acto irresponsable pero a la vez un sentimiento de alivio.

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Tamsen Reid

I had an abortion because I did not want to be pregnant. I wasn't ready to…

Miriam

The 10 weeks I was pregnant were the happiest weeks of my life. My husband

Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Mollie

Despite the intense feelings I've had since, I know it was the right thing to…

A .

16 semanas de terror

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

Gaby

No me arrepiento