Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

JJ

Ich bin froh über die Entscheidung

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

María

Mirar hacia adelante.

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Mollie

Despite the intense feelings I've had since, I know it was the right thing to…

Maria Victoria

ABORTO CON MIEDO, ante la incertidumbre económica y de una relación aún no…

María

Proceso duro,

Emma

I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…

Luna

Lo hice en un país en el cual es ilegal, por lo que tuve que acceder al mercado…

Jessi

No olvidemos, que nos haga crecer

Libertad

El orgullo de ser mujer y poder decidir.

qwerty

detailed account of the process, from having a positive PT to having a negative…

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

Nina

Fiz um aborto

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.