Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Nina

Fiz um aborto

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it was safe and very effective...was 38days late.i follwed women on web within…

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Mariana Girassol

Esteja segura e tenha apoio de alguem

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Amazomas

Yo aborte el día 10 de noviembre del 2015 dos días antes me había enterado de…

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Elizabeth Elizabeth

Yesterday was my second abortion. My first one was an easy choice as I was just…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Dominika

Miałam aborcję, udało się i nie żałuję.

Lisa

I always thought I cannot be pregnant, as I was diagnosed with primal…

Alice

Bom, há algumas semanas eu já vinha desconfiando de uma gravidez, embora não…

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.