Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

Iolanda

Ser solidária com quem abortou e defender a descriminalização jamais me fez…

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Lucy Smith

It was never going to be easy

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

Anne

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Samantha

Grow Yourself, Before You Grow a Baby.

serena serena

Yo aborte. No culpo por haberlo hecho, sino por no haberme cuidado. Desde el…

Luna Luna

Por que ya tengo dos bebes y el mas pequeño tiene seis meses tenia otros planes…

Dora

Eu estava calma, mas um pouco..'medrosa'? talvez? Não sei se era um bem um medo…

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

María

Proceso duro,

Maree

It was sad but necessary