Anne

Hikayenizi Paylaşın

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Германия

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Незаконность аборта повлияла на ваши чувства?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Как другие люди отреагировали на ваш аборт?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Zuzanna

Chciałabym opisać moją historię, która zakończyła się dokładnie trzy dni temu.

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

poo

나는 임신중절을 했다

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Amarie

I got pregnant by the guy I was only dating for 2 months. I found out about it…

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Chispi

¿decisión o "me hice a la idea"?

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

Lorena Lore

Yo aborte con 5 semanas de gestacion !! No ago responsable a nadie yo me ago…

Dana Bronte

Muerte de un ángel.

Lora Fleming

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions…

Ayshy

Aborto cytotec 5 semanas

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Emma

I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…

Silvia García

decidi abortar porque no tengo la economía para tener un hijo y hoy en día los…