Lora Fleming

Share your story

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Соединенные Штаты Америки

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Незаконность аборта повлияла на ваши чувства?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Как другие люди отреагировали на ваш аборт?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Chelsea

I had a painful abortion

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Nara

Eu descobri a gravidez com 10 semanas,tomava Yasmin a 4 anos,assim que comecei…

Tannicola Nkata

I was brutally rapped during my time of imprisonment in my native country. I…

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

luz

getting thru the pain.

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Fernanda

Hola mi nombre es fernanda tengo 23 años y mi historia comenzo cuando un condon…

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Mireya Mireya

Y no siento culpa, dolor o pena se que aún sigue siendo tabú en México por la…