Lucy Bennett

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I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me and my boyfriend decided to start having sex, we broke up as you do at 16, his explanation was I was too moody for him, I just thought he was a prick, I've allways had moods so nothing unusual there, I was on holiday when my mum started telling me I should get some bigger bra's, I just thought I haden't realised I was getting bigger boobs not anything to worry about, untill my mum started to realise i had put on weight, loads of weight, a few more weeks down the line and I was a dress size bigger, she told me she thinks I should take a test, i didn't think anything of it untill it said the result, in shock, I told the father, and he didn't belive me, i left him to it untill he came around and me and my mum went for a emergency scan the next morning, everyone telling me an abortion was the right thing to do, even the father was suggesting it, suggesting for me to get rid of my baby that's inside of me, I was getting so much grief, my step dad had nothing to do with it and so we knew my parents would break up in result if i didn't have an abortion, they don't think that's the reason but it is, so I had a surgical abortion and I hate myself for it, I'm 16, 3 months after the abortion, a month before my baby is supposed to be due and nothing, no friends to tell me it's okay because i couldn't explain to anyone, both of my parents thinking i'm absolutely fine, and my ex boyfriend. still no word from him, I rarely go out and when I do it's to work or college, I don't speak to anyone new, and I don't speak to boys, I pretend i've made friends to stop ny parents from going on and I overate to take my stress and anger away, I have nightmares and flashbacks very often that lead me to tears guilt and tiredness, I wish I didn't have this abortion, I wish I had a choice.

2014 Reino Unido

horrific, I hate myself for it.

guilt of what would happen to my family.

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

yes.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

No one really knew, a few hugs from family, week off school and then everyhting back to normal.

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Luna Luna

Por que ya tengo dos bebes y el mas pequeño tiene seis meses tenia otros planes…

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Cumbe Nelia

Fiz dois abortos com 20 anos...uma em janeiro nao usamos o preservativo mas ele…

Lucy Smith

It was never going to be easy

Raqueli

misto de melancolia e alívio

Carolina

Me enfrente a la injusticia de haber nacido mujer

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Lorena Lore

Yo aborte con 5 semanas de gestacion !! No ago responsable a nadie yo me ago…

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Caroline

Never had any regrets

CINTIA

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento de ello.

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe