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2018 Alemanha

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

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Tuve que hacerlo

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Leslie

Mi libertad de elegir

Magui

La mejor decisión

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Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Guid

Não me arrependo!

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

mica

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento ni un segundo de haberlo hecho.

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

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Aborto cytotec 5 semanas

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Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.