Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

2012 Verenigde Staten

gevangen egoistisch verlicht overtuigd gelukkig schuldig angstig

It gave me so many mixed emotions! I was happy to follow through but felt selfish(dad to be wanted to keep it) and maybe a little guilty.. or definitely judged.

in een kliniek of ziekenhuis met chirurgie (zuigcurretage)

Took 2 days, day 1 they do ultrasound and all that then they gave me medicine to help induce me and soften the cervix. Had milf cramps that evening. Went back day 2 and they gave me a large shot near my belly button, sat for a few hours, went under anesthesia, woke up in a different room with several other women, groggy.. and waited to be checked and released. But I was 20weeks along.. so yeah

financiele situatie problemen met mijn partner mijn persoonlijke reden waarom in geen kind wilde geestelijke gezondheid

I mainly was not ready to give up no responsibilities and couldn't afford a kid.

Had de illegaliteit van je abortus invloed op je gevoelens?

Being legal didnt make the choice any easier.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

Close family supported me. Friends (some not all) that I thought would support me talked bad about me behind my back and to my face.

legaal

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