Sonja

Deel je ervaring

2019 Finland

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Phoebe

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KEP

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Robbin

I had an abortion, and i should not have to hide it. My womb is still just fine.

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Milva

Gdy okazało się, że jestem w ciąży najpierw się ucieszyliśmy z mężem. Będzie…

Luna

Lo hice en un país en el cual es ilegal, por lo que tuve que acceder al mercado…

Laura

Strength & Solidarity

Jillybean

Women's bodies belong only to us. Men, families, society, have no right to…

takaja

zrobiłabym to jeszcze raz

Susy

Yo interrumpí mi embarazo...

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

Mollie

Despite the intense feelings I've had since, I know it was the right thing to…

Maria sovitlana

i really cant believe that i can do it in a country where so much hard law…

Delfini

Mam 44 lata i dwójkę dzieci. Moje dzieci są już w szkole podstawowej. Bardzo…

diana

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Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

Mary

YO ABORTE CON CYTOTEC, con ayuda de una chica de un grupo de apoyo de méxico.

Luna Luna

Por que ya tengo dos bebes y el mas pequeño tiene seis meses tenia otros planes…