Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

yerlina

mi decision.una eleccion

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Nina

Fiz um aborto

Pues sí chicas, yo me practiqué un aborto a los 19 años. Tenía 8 semanas de…

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Daniela

Tengo una hija de 4 años, pero aun asi yo aborte este año.

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

Colibrí de Oro

Aborte y no me siento culpable!

Julia

Postanowiłam się podzielić swoją historią, ponieważ gdy szukałam informacji na…

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Sam

I was 21 years old. I actually had just stopped using Birth Control due to the…

Anna

Jak dla każdej kobiety dowiedzenie się ze jest się w ciąży, zwłaszcza jeżeli…

Rike

It was a birthday

Nadia

Kochana kobieto, która być może jesteś właśnie w niechcianej ciąży, wiec że…