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2018 Germany

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Sarah

Oi, gente. Vim deixar o relato sobre o meu processo. É um pouco extenso porque…

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Eunji A

낙태 당시에는 신체적으로 힘들었지만 지금은 컨디션이 평상시로 돌아왔습니다

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

Fran

yo aborte, fue la decisión correcta

Vicky

I had an abortion when I was 21. I knew right away that I was pregnant--within…

ROCÍO

Lo logré....estoy tranquila

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

L

No quise ser madre a la fuerza

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Estrella Triste Estrella

"Yo me salve"
Todo comenzó el 06 de junio cuando en un baño moribundo y…

Lynne

Not prepared and so I have to make a difficult choice

Natália

Estava grávida de quase 12 semanas.