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After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

CJ Koivuniemi

I had an abortion. I was twenty years old and living in Ireland, a country…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Guid

Não me arrependo!

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

KiciaKamcia

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