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Unexpected feelings

2019 Egyesült Államok

For an unexplainable reason I'm hurt by this loss. For some reason flushing down the toilet (literally), what could have been my baby felt wrong. I never dreamed I would think of an unthinking, unfeeling, thing the size of a raspberry, as .. . Deserving. As needing taken care of. As deserving not to be just thrown away. I totally respect everyone's choice but for some reason I grew an attachment to that thing inside of me. I knew I was pregnant before the missed period. I felt my body change and at first I felt punished. Trapped. scared. I was so worried about how to make it stop and get back to my old self I didn't realize I was also subconsciously feeling every second of that pregnancy. I guess it left some weird imprint on me. I don't know how to tell my partner that it still hurts me. He doesnt get it when I try to tell him that it was a huge experience for me and I need time to heal. I wish I was one of those people who just go on with their life like nothing happened but ive always been pretty sensitive

I had a medical abortion. With a heating pad and tramadol, the pain was bearable. The bleeding stopped after a week. Going back to work was extremely hard for me at first as my job is very physically demanding but I got through it.

Ar jūsų abortų neteisėtumas paveikė jūsų jausmus?

The protesters who were outside of every clinic visit, yelling "repent" and "it's not too late" with their giant pictures of fetuses and whatnot. .. to the recent string of abortion/birth control bans and criminalization. I was so afraid I wouldn't have access to choice (I do thanks to the acula and pp and organizations like women have options who helped me AFFORD it). And after the abortion I feel less angry at those ignorant prolifers, I feel more.. grief. Which is their objective I'm sure. ..

Kaip kiti žmonės reagavo į jūsų abortą?

Indifferent/ nonchalant. My partner and I have always agreed to an abortion in case an accident ever happened.. and it did. I'm not brave enough or ready to tell my mother. I need time. I never dreamed it would affect me this way. I drunkenly told one of my few female friends. I work in a male dominated field and most of my friends are male. I don't think any of them could react in a way that would be comforting or worth validation as they can't understand. So I haven't told anyone really. Guess that's why I'm here.

Aguacate

Como abortar en una ciudad donde es penalizado el aborto las primeras semanas.

Vanessa

yo conoci a los 14 años a un vigilante que trabajaba donde mi mama el era super…

Angeli

I had an abortion

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida

R. P.

Força, meninas, que tudo se ajeita!

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Willem Velthoven

I had several abortions. And children too!

violet

Zdarzały mi się już wcześniej spóźnione okresy, które skutkowały paniką i…

MS

ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Kojika

Jestem w stałym związku od 7lat. Mam kochającego mężczyznę i mała córeczkę.

Lorena

Yo aborte por que decidí que no estaba lista para ser madre y por qué empiezo a…

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

xxx xxx

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