Jane

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I had 2 abortions

1989 United Kingdom

The first abortion I was very sure it was the right thing to do and felt very relieved afterwards. However psychologically it affected me a lot. I felt dirty and cheap. I did not want to have a relationship with a man afterwards. I was angry but could not talk to anyone about how I felt and bottled it up. I became depressed and isolated. A few years later I fell pregnant from a one night stand, one of the few times I had sex afterwards. I was very drunk. I took the morning after pill the next day but it didn’t work. I couldn’t believe I was in the same place again. I decided to have an abortion again as my family said they would not support me. It was terrible and broke my heart. However I learnt so much from my heartache. I decided to shake myself out of my depression and do something. I took responsibility for my actions. It was a horrible thing to do but it was necessary. Slowly I built my life again. I bought a flat. I met a wonderful man who loved me for who I was. We married and I had a baby at the right time. She was and is the best thing that ever happened to me. I had another beautiful daughter. We are a very happy family. I sometimes think about the babies I did not have have but a know I was too young and irresponsible and I would not have been a good mother. I have made peace with them and myself. I think abortions should be avoided at all costs but women need to be able to have the choice. No man should tell them otherwise. I want young women to know that even if you feel terrible now you can still find a lot of happiness in your future. Have faith in yourself and keep trying to find the right path for you.

It was physically uncomfortable and there was a lot of blood afterwards

My first abortion I was in a very dysfunctional relationship. My boyfriend was a heroin addict although he hid it from me. I had finished with him when I found out I was pregnant. I was in second year at university and having a child at 19 was not in my plans. My second abortion was from a one night stand where I was basically raped as I was out of control drunk. I couldn’t face bringing a baby into the world like that.

Ar jūsų abortų neteisėtumas paveikė jūsų jausmus?

I was lucky to live in a country that offers legal free abortions.

Kaip kiti žmonės reagavo į jūsų abortą?

I didn’t tell many people. My best friends. They were shocked and didnt really know how to react

Esmeralda Esmralda

Por que lo hice es quizas por que nobera mi momentl consideraba era muy pequeña…

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

anna dea

aku masih berumur 20thun aku mempunyai pacar usia nya di bawah ku 1 tahun aku…

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Lorelai

Basically I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, to my shock and awe…

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad

Embrace So

aku aborsi karena aku tidak ingin mengecewakan banyak orang. pasangan saya sama…

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Sailor Moon

1. Powody decyzji i dlaczego dziewczyny w mojej sytuacji nie powinny sie czuć…

Danna Elissa

ABORTAR PARA SER "LIBRES" NUEVAMENTE

J D

My now husband and I got pregnant the first time we slept together. We were…

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

britta

Something that has carried with me ever since.

Gemma

The best decision for me.

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

squaine123

Not in this alone