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And I was afraid at first...

2019 South Korea

It was hard. It was really really hard. Emotionally hard and physically hard. But I knew that from the second I got pregnant, this was what I had to do. I believe an abortion can be done nobly, it takes a lot of courage and strength for women who have children and women who confront themselves with abortion, however I am not trying to equate them. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but within time and choice. I have never held so highly, that right, before this experience.

I am simply not ready. My partner simply is not ready. We were foolish to have not been using contraceptives. And our foolishness did end the beginning of something that could have become a someone. Perhaps this is not the case for others, but this was how I felt and I just want to be honest about it. The thought heaved in my chest, making it hard to breathe sometimes. But I know deeply, and truly, I made the right decision.

Ar jūsų abortų neteisėtumas paveikė jūsų jausmus?

It made me feel stuck at most. Because back home, I could have gotten this done quickly... no shame involved... no second thoughts .... no need for reflection or further investigation of what it means to have an abortion. So I would have evaded this doubt or this thing I had considered dark. However I'm grateful for this waiting period, I confronted myself, my fears, my dreams, the reality of this position. Being in Seoul was difficult though. I read online that in certain clinics doctors were understanding to women who chose abortion, nonetheless I was still nervous to see them. When my partner and I went to get an ultrasound, we just pretended that we were going have the baby. I was afraid of the unlikely event that we would be reported, but mostly I was afraid of the doctor's judgement on me. I knew it was rooted in my head, looking back, I was the only one judging myself.

Kaip kiti žmonės reagavo į jūsų abortą?

I didn't tell anybody. Especially my father. I felt like telling my dad was the last thing I would do in the choices I had, and they were very limited. I know that he would have been supportive, irrational and maybe mad at first. Yet the idea of telling him gave me feelings of shame and humiliation, I still don't understand why. However my boyfriend was there with me and I told my best friend, she's a nurse. And there care for me was everything.

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

mela

Vivire por ti mi pequeño angel

Alma en busca de libertad

MI DECISIÓN, MI CUERPO, JUSTICIA PARA LAS MUJERES.

Bab

J'ai arrêté un processus de vie

Julia

Foi um pesadelo mas no final me senti mais aliviada

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

Fer

100% segura

Saraith saraith

Perdoneme mi bebe, te amare siempre!

Krysti

While I was on a 3-month vacation in Europe I met a guy and we quickly fell for…

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

Ianne

A cry of freedom for all women who are dictated by the mentality of the norms…

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

sogoodtobebad stassia

Dziewczyny ! nie bójcie się ! nie taki diabeł straszny jak go malują. Jeżeli…

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.