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Made me who I am today

2006 United States

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Kaip kiti žmonės reagavo į jūsų abortą?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Julia

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Nami

porque mi situación económica era pésima, al igual que la de mi pareja, ninguno…

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Amazomas

Yo aborte el día 10 de noviembre del 2015 dos días antes me había enterado de…

Bea

Enfim,tudo começou em Outubro. Tive relações sexuais com meu parceiro fixo (Meu…

Mandy Amanda

Hora de recomeçar

Fernanda

Hola mi nombre es fernanda tengo 23 años y mi historia comenzo cuando un condon…

Chinchulina

I come from a country where abortion is legal but due to my personal…

F. B

Vivi 2 meses em um pesadelo

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

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Aborté a mis 18, a unos cuantos meses de mi graduación de preparatoria.
Me…

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…