Emma

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I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was desperately in love with the father, who was older than me. I knew we should be using a condom, I even said that to him the night I lost my virginity, but he still had sex with me without one.
He also had a fiancée. I thought he would leave her for me, I was stupid and believed every word he said.

I just knew I couldn’t have a baby, I was barely an adult myself and I was scared. I made up my mind I had to have an abortion, it was my only option.

After I had the procedure I felt relief. Then when I got back home the father rang me and told me it was over between us. It shattered me. He had a baby with his fiancée a year later.

Twenty years on and I still feel regret about my decision. I feel as though it may have been my only chance to have a child and the whole experience has really fucked me up.

Of course when I consider the situation I think I made the right choice but it doesn’t make the pain any less.

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The awful thing is your feelings can change as you get older. I never thought I would feel so sad about having an abortion when I was so convinced it was the right thing to do when I was young.

I was scared as hell and thought I may actually die. I realise now I must have been in severe shock. All I remember was walking down a dark corridor into a surgical room, then I remember lying down with my legs in stirrups, counting back from ten. Then I woke up and some nurse was checking a pad between my legs to see how bad the bleeding was. It is literally like a nightmare that happened to someone else.

I wanted to go to University

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My family was very supportive.

Viridiana Aguilar

I had an abortion

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Fabiola Moreno

I had an abortion when I was 16 years old.

luz

getting thru the pain.

Tamsen Reid

I had an abortion because I did not want to be pregnant. I wasn't ready to…

DeOne

Its gonna be the first time i speak about my abortion.
I was just a 25 yo girl

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Fernanda

Hola mi nombre es fernanda tengo 23 años y mi historia comenzo cuando un condon…

Jess

*No podía ser* 11sem

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Cs

Porque la situación lo requería

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Laura

Strength & Solidarity

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Nathalia

Minha história começa com o sonho de cursar medicina no Brasil, o que é muito…