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Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going to hell, Others may say im a baby killer.. I DONT CARE. I was 19 years old in an abusive relationship with some 10 years my senior... I remember finding out in my girlfriends parents bathroom and crying..... calling my boyfriend and he said wll figure it out and I said there is nothing to figure out, I can't keep it..... He was very support at first.. I remember making the appointment, feeling sad, sick, selfish but relieved knowing it was going to happen and everything was going to be okay... May 9 2012 @ 8:30 AM was the appointment. The phone call the night before from the receptionist telling me I wasn't allowed to drive after the procedure so to make sure to have a safe way of getting home... I remember hanging up and crying of fear, self loathing and hatred.. I woke up in the morning a mess the closer we got to the clinic the better I felt about my decision.. My douche of an ex boyfriend was right by my side the whole time which that I thank him for..... I remember everything like it was yesterday, except the procedure itself.... I remember waking up and not feeling anything negative. Feeling like a weight had be lifted, feeling happy, feeling good! I mourned for a few days and every year around May 9 I get sad and little off. But I know I need to do it for me.. My then boyfriend threw it in my face every chance he got.... Called me a baby killer. Every time he said that I knew I did the right thing... I knew that my baby didn't deserve to grow up in a house that didn't have the love. I don't regret my abortion, I cant imagine having a 3 year old now in my life... I'm to young... I've made really bad decision in my life... This was not one of them.

2012 Canada

It was nothing I thought it was going to be... I thought everyone at the clinic was going to be cold and judgmental... But it wasn't everyone was sympathetic and loving and sweet and made that day so much easier... I love that I had such an amazing experience and I hate how this isn't the case for women around the world...

다른 사람들은 당신의 낙태에 대해 어떻게 반응 했습니까?

Only a few people know.... But very supportive

Macarena

Yo aborte , con oxapros en Buenos Aires tengo 24 años

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Masha

This isn't my first abortion.... :'( My second one I am currently scheduled for.

An

Stosowałam pigułki i nie zwróciłam uwagi na to, że problemy żołądkowe mogły…

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

Alicia

I had an abortion

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Pam

No había otra opción.

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

Wzięłam pierwszą tabletkę, czułam…

V

Minęło 5 miesięcy. Nie żałuję swojej decyzji, Ale żałuję że tak musiało się…

Phoebe

I didn't want to do it, but it is my worst fear to bring another child into the…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe