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당신의 이야기를 공유합니다

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

2007 Philippines

I had been to several OB-GYNs in hospitals. I told them I didn't want to and could not have a child but of course, they couldn't do anything because of the law here. Finally, at around 7 wks, I went to an NGO with a couple of female relatives. I felt extremely lucky because one of my relatives works in women's rights so we were able to go to an NGO with a real doctor and a counselor who interviewed me to make sure I was firm in my decision. They made me feel like they understood my predicament as I was young and very incapable of having a child. It's still highly illegal in this country so they were all understandably cautious and destroyed my ultrasound pictures and records. The procedure itself hurt and lasted maybe 20 minutes. I wasn't under general anesthesia but the nurses held my hand and told me to breathe. It felt good having all these women surrounding me. Afterwards, I was able to rest for a while in a lying-in room. My relationship with the father was no good though it lasted a couple more years (covertly) after my abortion. I'm happy I had it and I have no regrets over having it done. I only wish I could have spared my family the heartache and trouble.

낙태의 불법 성이 감정에 영향을 미쳤습니까?

Yes. I carried a lot of anger and guilt over it because I didn't feel it was fair that only a few people could afford or even find a safe place to carry out their abortion. And I was one of those few.

다른 사람들은 당신의 낙태에 대해 어떻게 반응 했습니까?

People were supportive/indifferent/sad. Only a few knew because it's illegal here

Bia

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Mary

YO ABORTE CON CYTOTEC, con ayuda de una chica de un grupo de apoyo de méxico.

pam carol

Yo aborte

Bel

Tak, miałam aborcję

Leopard

한국에 계신 여성분들 절대로 망설이지 마세요

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Jazmín

Sin remordimientos.

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

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Nie wahajcie sie, jezeli czujecie ze musicie.. zrobcie to

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