Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Sara

Siedziałam przed psychiatrą, opowiadając jej wydarzenia sprzed ostatnich…

Ninjanu

Friday, July 13th, 2012
9:03AM.
Hmm, he was supposed to be here by now… I sigh…

Ezzah candra

Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Anna

Jak dla każdej kobiety dowiedzenie się ze jest się w ciąży, zwłaszcza jeżeli…

Stormy-Hayden Skylar

I don't regret my abortion in the slightest.

lizbeth aparicio

I had an abortion yo quiero abortar porq no siempre se tiene calculadas las…

Eli

Difícil decisión

Estka

Mam dwójkę wspaniałych dzieci- 9 lat i rok. Nie chcieliśmy z mężem już więcej.

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

VIcky

Yo aborte

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

Pues sí chicas, yo me practiqué un aborto a los 19 años. Tenía 8 semanas de…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.