Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Key

I was too careless after meeting a guy when I was in a vulnerable period and…

Gigi

I forgot my birth control for a couple days on a trip, and it was enough to…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

AMANDA QUEIROZ

Eu e meu noivo estamos há 03 anos juntos e temos muitos planos. Comprar nossa…

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Kendra

I had my first abortion. The experience was very difficult. I went back and…

Guid

Não me arrependo!