Anne

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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Germany

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Amarie

I got pregnant by the guy I was only dating for 2 months. I found out about it…

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

enfermera

Antes de hacer cualquier cosa infórmate muy bien para tomar la decisión…

Mariana

Esta es mi historia: Tengo 35 años y 3 hijos, dos nenas y un varón de 6, 3 y 1…

Lisal M. C

It was a big decided that I made in my life. I had a complexity relationship…

María

Mirar hacia adelante.

Pam

No había otra opción.

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

Paloma

tenemos derecho a decidir, a no ser juzgadas!!! nosotras también tenemos…

Alma en busca de libertad

MI DECISIÓN, MI CUERPO, JUSTICIA PARA LAS MUJERES.

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Pam Map

Yo lo hice no me arrepiento para nada y agradezco a este sitio por haberme…

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

takajakty

To była lepsza decyzja

Misa Mary

soy feliz,soy libre, aborte!! fue la decision mas acertada y feliz que pude…