Anne

Deel je ervaring

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Duitsland

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Alejandra

Mi decisión

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

Vale

Mi hijo se transformó en una estrella.
Ahora veo a los demás de otra manera.
A…

Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

Paula

LO HERMOSO DE DECIDIR

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Stephanie

at just 19 years old.

Mabel

Mabel

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Evelyn

Un ángel que me guía.

Daiana Domzalez

Mi experiencia con oxaprost, 9 semanas

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

diana

naprawde nie miałam wyjścia jestem miesiąc po,nie bolało szczerze mówiąc…