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Pasidalinti savo istorija

2018 Germany

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

YoungWoman from India

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Natália

Estava grávida de quase 12 semanas.

Anna

Nigdy nie sądziłam, że to powiem ale tak, miałam aborcję.
Historie innych…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Cela B

Você precisa fazer uma auto avaliação e ver o que é melhor pra você. Não…

Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
Quando realizei meu aborto…

Magda

Może jestem bez serca ale niczego nie żałuję. ja chyba nie nadaję się na matkę…

Dominika

Historia jest dosyć banalna i podejrzewam, że nie ja jedna zaszłam w taki…

Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

magdalena

Miałam aborcje. Dzięki pomocy i wyrozumiałości women on web uda mi się to.

Anna K.

nie żałuję,

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.