Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Birdy <3

MY BODY, MY CHOICE!

Mireya Mireya

Y no siento culpa, dolor o pena se que aún sigue siendo tabú en México por la…

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

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deedee

한국에 계신 분들 걱정마십쇼!! 낙심하시 마시고 자신을 믿으세요!

Sarah Brown Sara

A pesar de que tengo la edad suficiente y una pareja estable y en planes de…

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Sam

I was 21 years old. I actually had just stopped using Birth Control due to the…

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

a.

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