Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

Wzięłam pierwszą tabletkę, czułam…

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Gabi

Miałam aborcję w 8 tygodniu ciąży. Była przeprowadzona nielegalnie w prywatnym…

C.

I had an abortion, I don't regret it but I can't get over it. The lack of…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Jéssica Santos

Me submeti ao aborto!

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Liz

I cry. Going into the decision I was strong and certain that I wanted to have…

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Anyel. Mtz.

Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad