Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Alejandra

Mi decisión

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

Riki

We're not monsters!

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

Abigail

2 miesiące po aborcji. Moje życie wróciło do normy. Jest dobrze..

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.