Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Eléonore Delmas

I had an abortion

Daniela

Tengo una hija de 4 años, pero aun asi yo aborte este año.

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

T.C.P

Bom, o espaço de tempo entre descobrir que estava gravida e realizar o aborto…

alessandra

I had an abortion

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Adriana Reyes

Hola mi nombre es Adriana tengo 22 años y soy estudiante de Pedagogía; quisiera…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

MS

ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN

Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.