Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 United States

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Nanda

Oi meninas, venho aqui contar meu relato para vocês pq acredito que de alguma…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

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Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

Wzięłam pierwszą tabletkę, czułam…

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

Bri

I knew I was pregnant as soon as I was around two weeks. I had never been…

Sara

Siedziałam przed psychiatrą, opowiadając jej wydarzenia sprzed ostatnich…

C123

CRÓNICAS DE UNA MUJER QUE DECIDIÓ NO TRAER UN HIJO A ESTE MUNDO...

JasminMisa

Abortar es tu elección!

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.