Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 الولايات المتحدة الأمريكية

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

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In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Carolina

Estou numa relação estável há 4 anos e há 2 parei de usar anticoncepcional…

Sarah

I feel much relieved thanks to women on web because living in a country where…

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Jéssica Santos

Me submeti ao aborto!

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

Jos

Era lo mejor