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Made me who I am today

2006 Amerika Serikat

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Bagaimana orang lain bereaksi terhadap aborsi Anda?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

mayumi uehara

Fiz.não me arrependo e contei com a ajuda da ong, o que foi essencial para que…

pam carol

Yo aborte

Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship

Zuzanna

To była słuszna decyzja.

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

Nikki

I made the right decision.

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

deedee

한국에 계신 분들 걱정마십쇼!! 낙심하시 마시고 자신을 믿으세요!

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Daisy

Miałam aborcję. I nie jestem z tego dumna.
19 lutego 2020 roku zrobiłam test…

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Sam

I was 21 years old. I actually had just stopped using Birth Control due to the…