Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

Ossza meg velünk történetét

Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Wendy

Mi historia

Lucille 2

I had an abortion. I got pregnant from a brief relationship and very…

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Jessi

No olvidemos, que nos haga crecer

Luciana

Hace exactamente 1 año y dos meses. Arranque el 2017 con todo. Supe el día que…

yerlina

mi decision.una eleccion

Katarina

w wieku 20 lat. Byłam za młoda, mam wielkie plany na przyszłość, nie chciałam…

qwerty

detailed account of the process, from having a positive PT to having a negative…

Monoirmarie

Yo aborté porque es mi derecho

Leonor Leonor

Mi madre quería nietos... Yo solo quiero dejar de recriminarme.

Kate

and I'm so relieved

Keh Oliver

e não me arrenpendo.

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Szczęściara

Rok 2018 miał być dla mnie rokiem od którego oczekiwałam dużo zmian…