Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

Ossza meg velünk történetét

Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Hollandia

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Isabelle

Bom, estou escrevendo aqui pois os relatos de vocês que me deram forças. Eu não…

Blue

The decision was easy, but the emotions were not.

The person who got me…

C.

I had an abortion, I don't regret it but I can't get over it. The lack of…

Mayra

Yo aborté a las 7 semanas y fue la mejor decisión.

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

anonymous

My abortion story.

Nadia

Le habia escrito una blanca cancion del amor entre una nube y un pez volador.

Ana Vargas

Mi aborto lo hice a los 14años hoy tengo una hija de 23 años y un hijo de 17…

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

Imgoingtobeokay

It's 2:25AM as I write this. I had two pills of misoprostol at 11PM. Been…

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad

Lucy Smith

It was never going to be easy