Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

Gabi

Miałam aborcję w 8 tygodniu ciąży. Była przeprowadzona nielegalnie w prywatnym…

gise

esta vez decido yo!

Carolina Posso

I had an abortion porque me sentía sola, sentía que todo el mundo se iba a…

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Silvia García

decidi abortar porque no tengo la economía para tener un hijo y hoy en día los…

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

YoungWoman from India

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

Joana

versão corrigida do relato

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!