Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

Mabel

Mabel

Julia

Razem z moich chłopakiem znamy się niecały rok , jest ode mnie młodszy o 4 lata…

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Nara

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Anne

Que alivio!

Iolanda

Ser solidária com quem abortou e defender a descriminalização jamais me fez…

squaine123

Not in this alone

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Isa

Tenho 28 anos, namoro a 2 anos. Sou do interior.
Duas semanas atrás descobri que…

Warrior

Sinceramente eu não imaginei que passaria por isso esse ano. Mas sabia que um…

Angel M

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Młoda Dama

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Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Johanna P.

Era lo que tenia que hacer

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made