Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Bi

Lembro que quando minha menstruação atrasou no primeiro dia eu já senti que…

Ninjanu

Friday, July 13th, 2012
9:03AM.
Hmm, he was supposed to be here by now… I sigh…

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

rosita

La desición más difícil de mi vida

Sara

Siedziałam przed psychiatrą, opowiadając jej wydarzenia sprzed ostatnich…

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

Cela B

Você precisa fazer uma auto avaliação e ver o que é melhor pra você. Não…

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

SD

I had an abortion. It was in October of 2008, when I was 21. The guy I was…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

takaja

zrobiłabym to jeszcze raz