Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

K.A.K.

Najgorszy dzień w moim życiu. Początek stycznia, wtedy zobaczyłam te…

Anonimowa

Dwie kreski...Te dwie czerwone kreski na białym papierku były jak kubeł zimnej…

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

Masha

This isn't my first abortion.... :'( My second one I am currently scheduled for.

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Beata

Informacja o ciąży przeraziła mnie...nie potrafiłam się z tym pogodzić, byłam…

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Meg.

Your a strong women!

Misa Mary

soy feliz,soy libre, aborte!! fue la decision mas acertada y feliz que pude…

Karin

Zrobiłam to!

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Mój cykl menstruacyjny zawsze wynosił 28 dni

Anne

Que alivio!

Cela B

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Mariana

Esta es mi historia: Tengo 35 años y 3 hijos, dos nenas y un varón de 6, 3 y 1…

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

Monia

Gdy dowiedziałam się że jestem w ciąży byłam przerażona. Nigdy nie przepadałam…