Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Jos

Era lo mejor

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Emily

10 years ago, at age 32, I had an abortion. The pregnancy was unplanned and I…

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Bi

Lembro que quando minha menstruação atrasou no primeiro dia eu já senti que…

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Meri

The "choice" of medical termination is not accurate when it's used as a weapon…

Matka Winna

Moja historia

Laura

I had a surgical abortion at Planned Parenthood in Beacon, NY at 4 weeks.