Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

laura

Mi experiencia

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Natasha

I had come off the contraceptive pill as it had me feeling un well, we thought…

Anne

Que alivio!

Liz

I cry. Going into the decision I was strong and certain that I wanted to have…

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

Eléonore Delmas

I had an abortion

Aisling

Minor blip overcome thanks to Women on Web

P.

Wszystko zaczęło sie dosyć banalnie i nic nie zwiastowało, że wkrótce mogę sie…

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

R. P.

Força, meninas, que tudo se ajeita!

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

SD

I had an abortion. It was in October of 2008, when I was 21. The guy I was…

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

J D

My now husband and I got pregnant the first time we slept together. We were…

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.