Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Nonaka

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Claire

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Nastka

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deedee

한국에 계신 분들 걱정마십쇼!! 낙심하시 마시고 자신을 믿으세요!

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Leopard

한국에 계신 여성분들 절대로 망설이지 마세요

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Riki

We're not monsters!

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Paula

i had an abortion

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida