Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Ninjanu

Friday, July 13th, 2012
9:03AM.
Hmm, he was supposed to be here by now… I sigh…

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

squaine123

Not in this alone

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Ania

Wczoraj dokonałam aborcji.
Odejście od męża, związanie się z nowym, wydawałoby…

Emily

It was the right thing to do.

Sarah

I feel much relieved thanks to women on web because living in a country where…

Val

Am I a horrible person

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.

Nichole Jeffers

Being allergic to latex I became pregnant multiple times before I was 20 having…