Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

Renata k

Fiz um aborto, foi uma escolha. Apesar do medo, foi muito tranquilo e não me…

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Gabi

Miałam aborcję w 8 tygodniu ciąży. Była przeprowadzona nielegalnie w prywatnym…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

Joanna

Odzyskałam Moc:)

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god

CPA

Olá, tenho 24 anos e fiz um aborto com aproximadamente 8 semanas. Fiz questão…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Krysti

While I was on a 3-month vacation in Europe I met a guy and we quickly fell for…