Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Urszula

Po porodzie miałam postanowienie, wiecej dzieci nie chcę, mój ginekolog dobrze…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Sara

Siedziałam przed psychiatrą, opowiadając jej wydarzenia sprzed ostatnich…

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.

Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Kyky

Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.