Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Mariela

Aunque me cueste decirlo, yo aborté

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Mandy Amanda

Hora de recomeçar

Abigail

2 miesiące po aborcji. Moje życie wróciło do normy. Jest dobrze..

luz

getting thru the pain.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Jennifer

At the age of 15 I was told that I would likely never be able to get pregnant…

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Paola XD

Yo aborté en Chile, donde es ilegal. Tengo 29 años. Lo hice con medicamentos, a…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

mary cry

pior momento de minha vida

Wer

Tomé la decisión correcta, tal vez no justa, pero correcta.