Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Agnieszka

Miałam aborcję - nie żałuję

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Sol

Macierzyństwo nie jest dla każdego

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Elisa Isalia

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Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Paola XD

Yo aborté en Chile, donde es ilegal. Tengo 29 años. Lo hice con medicamentos, a…

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

Carolina Posso

I had an abortion porque me sentía sola, sentía que todo el mundo se iba a…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Andreita

yo aborte

Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

Lucyna L

I had an abortion

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…