Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Szczęściara

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Maria

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Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Urszula

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Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Marie

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Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Isa

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Duas semanas atrás descobri que…

Sunny

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Ezzah candra

Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga

pam carol

Yo aborte

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Jillybean

Women's bodies belong only to us. Men, families, society, have no right to…

Na

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