Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

Claudia Aviles

i had an abortion, and 10 years later i became a mother. you have the right to…

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

Paula

i had an abortion

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

luz

getting thru the pain.

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

E.

Decyzja o aborcji była najcięższą do tej pory..

Duda

Sendo lactante

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.