Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Cristina

Primeira mente, quero agradecer vcs que deixaram seus depoimentos, pois isso…

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

Rocio Rocio

14 semanas

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Daisy

I had an abortion about seven years ago when I was 16. I was in an abusive…

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

Maria Lopez

pensando en que dirán

CPA

Olá, tenho 24 anos e fiz um aborto com aproximadamente 8 semanas. Fiz questão…