Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

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in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Karin

Zrobiłam to!

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Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.

JJ

Ich bin froh über die Entscheidung

Almma Crysta

Supe de mi embarazo el 19 de enero de 2018 por una ecografía transvaginal que…

Fabiana

Sou advogada, tenho 40 anos 2 filhas adultas e uma vida estável e feliz.

Sempre…

YoungWoman from India

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Monoirmarie

Yo aborté porque es mi derecho

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.