Lora Fleming

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Egyesült Államok

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

mary cry

pior momento de minha vida

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

T.C.P

Bom, o espaço de tempo entre descobrir que estava gravida e realizar o aborto…

YoungWoman from India

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Natasha

I had come off the contraceptive pill as it had me feeling un well, we thought…

Karin

Zrobiłam to!

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Mój cykl menstruacyjny zawsze wynosił 28 dni

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

E.

Decyzja o aborcji była najcięższą do tej pory..

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Ania

Wczoraj dokonałam aborcji.
Odejście od męża, związanie się z nowym, wydawałoby…

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed