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Made me who I am today

2006 Egyesült Államok

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

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Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Anastasia

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Ivana

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fiore fiol

Yo me practique un aborto con citotec porque acababab de tener una bebe y…

Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

JasminMisa

Abortar es tu elección!

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Willem Velthoven

I had several abortions. And children too!

Nami

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Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

P

...Lo quería pero no podía

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Sam

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No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

Layla

No dia 28 de outubro de 2018, fazia uma semana que eu vomitava todos os dias ao…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.