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Made me who I am today

2006 Egyesült Államok

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

Evelyn

I discovered I was pregnant. It was about 5 weeks and 4 days old. I did an…

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

elena

interrumpi un embarazo de 6 semanas

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Miriam

The 10 weeks I was pregnant were the happiest weeks of my life. My husband

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Catalina

El Misotrol salvó mi vida