Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Pays-Bas

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

Nina

Fiz um aborto

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

Jess

I had two...it was not a hard decision, and I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm a…

Montse

"Un acto amoroso"

Colibrí de Oro

Aborte y no me siento culpable!

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

JJ

Ich bin froh über die Entscheidung

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Suzanne

I had an abortion

Blue

The decision was easy, but the emotions were not.

The person who got me…

Key

I was too careless after meeting a guy when I was in a vulnerable period and…

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…