Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Pays-Bas

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Catherine

I had an abortion when I needed it, hassle-free, legal, medically safe, and…

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Ninjanu

Friday, July 13th, 2012
9:03AM.
Hmm, he was supposed to be here by now… I sigh…

C.

I had an abortion, I don't regret it but I can't get over it. The lack of…

Hajat

Życie składa się z podejmowania trudnych decyzji

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Mar Tina

Todo es muy reciente ... estoy recuperandome hace tan solo dos dias que sucedio.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Paulette De los reyes

Decidi lo mejor para las dos

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.

VIcky

Yo aborte

Mayra

Yo aborté a las 7 semanas y fue la mejor decisión.

Milva

Gdy okazało się, że jestem w ciąży najpierw się ucieszyliśmy z mężem. Będzie…

Samantha

Grow Yourself, Before You Grow a Baby.